Going home to visit family without Husband.

My Husband has been gone for 4 years, when I go home to visit family they seem to care less about how I am feeling, not one single person asks how I am doing. They think I am just fine, little do they how much I am still suffering with losing my wonderful Julian. I hate going each year, all I am is their gardener, babysitter, and house maid. I am fed up with this. It will be my last year visiting. I live in Florida and the family is in Michigan.   

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Permalink Reply by Jean on May 21, 2017 at 4:29pm

If I were you I would change plans and go somewhere that you and he loved to be together. You are not obligated to do anything you not choose to do. I am finding inner peace doing this. No need to "put on airs".

Just be as peaceful as you can be and avoid the drama.

Permalink Reply by Linda Engberg on May 22, 2017 at 6:27am

Jean,

Thanks for your reply, I made the commitment for this year, but it will be my last one. Again, thanks for your thoughts on this.

Linda

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